ciao, ho fatto una piccola pagina html come esempio. chiedi senza problemi qualunque cosa. spero di esserti stata utile 
codice HTML:
<html>
<head>
<title>Test menu</title>
<script src="http://code.jquery.com/jquery-1.6.4.min.js" type="text/javascript"></script>
<style type="text/css">
ul > li { float:left; list-style-type:none; margin:0 5px; position:relative; }
.elMenu { background-color:greenyellow; padding:0 5px; cursor:pointer; }
.elMenu:hover { background-color:yellow; }
.elSubMenu { width:200px; border:3px solid yellow; position:absolute; padding:10px 5px; }
</style>
</head>
<body>
<ul>
<li>
<span id="m1" class="elMenu">Menu 1</span>
<div id="d1" class="elSubMenu" hidden>testo menu 1</div>
</li>
<li>
<span id="m2" class="elMenu">Menu 2</span>
<div id="d2" class="elSubMenu" hidden>testo menu 2</div>
</li>
</ul>
<script type="text/javascript">
$(".elMenu").hover(function() {
var idEl = $(this).attr("id").replace("m", "");
$("#d" + idEl).show();
}, function() { $(".elSubMenu").hide(); });
</script>
</body>
</html>