il problema lo scrivo alla fine!!!
ho il file index scritto così:

<!DOCTYPE HTML PUBLIC "-//W3C//DTD HTML 4.0 Transitional//EN">

<HTML>
<HEAD><TITLE>welcome at lool</TITLE>

<!-- Prevent caching in netscape.
Very important cause netscape tends to mangle cached code -->
<META HTTP-EQUIV="expires" CONTENT="0">
<META HTTP-EQUIV="Pragma" CONTENT="no-cache">


<SCRIPT LANGUAGE="JavaScript" type="text/javascript" src="fpi-init.js"></SCRIPT>
<SCRIPT LANGUAGE="JavaScript" type="text/javascript" src="fpi-writevb.js"></SCRIPT>
<SCRIPT LANGUAGE="JavaScript" type="text/javascript" src="fpi-main.js"></SCRIPT>

</HEAD>

<BODY BGCOLOR="#FFFFFF">



Rilevamento del plugin per Macromedia Flash in corso...


<NOSCRIPT>
<META HTTP-EQUIV="Refresh" CONTENT="10;URL=noflash.html">


</NOSCRIPT>


</BODY>
</HTML>

il file fpi-init.js è

var requiredVersion = 6; // Version the user needs to view site (max 9, min 2)
var useRedirect = true; // Flag indicating whether or not to load a separate
// page based on detection results. Set to true to
// load a separate page. Set to false to embed the
// movie or alternate html directly into this page.

// Only set next three vars if useRedirect is true...
var flashPage = "load.swf" // The location of the flash movie page
var noFlashPage = "noflash.html" // Page displayed if the user doesn't have the
// plugin or we can't detect it.
var upgradePage = "upgrade.html" // Page displayed if we detect an old plugin






// System globals
var flash2Installed = false; // boolean. true if flash 2 is installed
var flash3Installed = false; // boolean. true if flash 3 is installed
var flash4Installed = false; // boolean. true if flash 4 is installed
var flash5Installed = false; // boolean. true if flash 5 is installed
var flash6Installed = false; // boolean. true if flash 6 is installed
var flash7Installed = false; // boolean. true if flash 7 is installed
var flash8Installed = false; // boolean. true if flash 8 is installed
var flash9Installed = false; // boolean. true if flash 9 is installed
var maxVersion = 9; // highest version we can actually detect
var actualVersion = 0; // version the user really has
var hasRightVersion = false; // boolean. true if it's safe to embed the flash movie in the page
var jsVersion = 1.0; // the version of javascript supported


il mio problema è che quando pubblico il file index mi carica il vile swf a schermo pieno e non riesco a capire come mai.
dove sbaglio?
grazie