non è assurdo è corretto, il problema non è js e nemmeno php ma semplice formattazione dell'html

codice:
	<form name="scheda" method="get" action="#"> 
	<table id="tblScheda"> 

<tr> 
<th colspan="2">Riferimenti richiesta[img]add.png[/img]</th> 
</tr> 
<tr> 
<td>Riferimento [img]del.png[/img]</td> 
<td> 
    Cognome <input type="text" name="cognome[]"> - Nome <input type="text" name="nome[]">
 
    <select name="richiesta_id_tel_1"> 
    <option value="0" selected></option> 
    <option value="1">Casa</option> 
    <option value="2">Uff.</option> 
    <option value="3">Cell.</option> 
    <option value="4">Altro</option> 
    <option value="5">Fax</option> 
    </select> 
    Tel. 1 <input type="text" name="tel_1[]"> - <input type="password" name="rip_tel_1[]">
 
    <select name="richiesta_id_tel_2"> 
    <option value="0" selected></option><option value="1">Casa</option> 
    <option value="2">Uff.</option> 
    <option value="3">Cell.</option> 
    <option value="4">Altro</option> 
    <option value="5">Fax</option> 
    </select> 
    Tel. 2<input type="text" name="tel_2[]"> -<input type="password" name="rip_tel_2[]">
 
    <select name="richiesta_id_tel_3"> 
    <option value="0" selected></option> 
    <option value="1">Casa</option> 
    <option value="2">Uff.</option> 
    <option value="3">Cell.</option> 
    <option value="4">Altro</option> 
    <option value="5">Fax</option></select> 
    Tel. 3 <input type="text" name="tel_3[]"> - <input type="password" name="rip_tel_3[]"></td> 
</tr> 
</table> 
<table> 
<tr> 
<td><input type="hidden" id="q" name="q" value="1"><input type="submit" name="Submit" value="Invia"></td> 
</tr> 
</table>
</form>