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<%
' *** Edit Operations: declare variables

Dim MM_editAction
Dim MM_abortEdit
Dim MM_editQuery
Dim MM_editCmd

Dim MM_editConnection
Dim MM_editTable
Dim MM_editRedirectUrl
Dim MM_editColumn
Dim MM_recordId

Dim MM_fieldsStr
Dim MM_columnsStr
Dim MM_fields
Dim MM_columns
Dim MM_typeArray
Dim MM_formVal
Dim MM_delim
Dim MM_altVal
Dim MM_emptyVal
Dim MM_i

MM_editAction = CStr(Request.ServerVariables("SCRIPT_NAME"))
If (Request.QueryString <> "") Then
MM_editAction = MM_editAction & "?" & Request.QueryString
End If

' boolean to abort record edit
MM_abortEdit = false

' query string to execute
MM_editQuery = ""
%>
<%
' *** Update Record: set variables

If (CStr(Request("MM_update")) = "form1" And CStr(Request("MM_recordId")) <> "") Then

MM_editConnection = MM_rscorsi_STRING
MM_editTable = "gallery"
MM_editColumn = "id"
MM_recordId = "" + Request.Form("MM_recordId") + ""
MM_fieldsStr = "didascalia|value"
MM_columnsStr = "didascalia|',none,''"

' create the MM_fields and MM_columns arrays
MM_fields = Split(MM_fieldsStr, "|")
MM_columns = Split(MM_columnsStr, "|")

' set the form values
For MM_i = LBound(MM_fields) To UBound(MM_fields) Step 2
MM_fields(MM_i+1) = CStr(Request.Form(MM_fields(MM_i)))
Next


End If
%>
<%
' *** Update Record: construct a sql update statement and execute it

If (CStr(Request("MM_update")) <> "" And CStr(Request("MM_recordId")) <> "") Then

' create the sql update statement
MM_editQuery = "update " & MM_editTable & " set "
For MM_i = LBound(MM_fields) To UBound(MM_fields) Step 2
MM_formVal = MM_fields(MM_i+1)
MM_typeArray = Split(MM_columns(MM_i+1),",")
MM_delim = MM_typeArray(0)
If (MM_delim = "none") Then MM_delim = ""
MM_altVal = MM_typeArray(1)
If (MM_altVal = "none") Then MM_altVal = ""
MM_emptyVal = MM_typeArray(2)
If (MM_emptyVal = "none") Then MM_emptyVal = ""
If (MM_formVal = "") Then
MM_formVal = MM_emptyVal
Else
If (MM_altVal <> "") Then
MM_formVal = MM_altVal
ElseIf (MM_delim = "'") Then ' escape quotes
MM_formVal = "'" & Replace(MM_formVal,"'","''") & "'"
Else
MM_formVal = MM_delim + MM_formVal + MM_delim
End If
End If
If (MM_i <> LBound(MM_fields)) Then
MM_editQuery = MM_editQuery & ","
End If
MM_editQuery = MM_editQuery & MM_columns(MM_i) & " = " & MM_formVal
Next
MM_editQuery = MM_editQuery & " where " & MM_editColumn & " = " & MM_recordId

If (Not MM_abortEdit) Then
' execute the update
Set MM_editCmd = Server.CreateObject("ADODB.Command")
MM_editCmd.ActiveConnection = MM_editConnection
MM_editCmd.CommandText = MM_editQuery
MM_editCmd.Execute
MM_editCmd.ActiveConnection.Close
%>
<script>
opener.location = "visgallery.asp";
window.close()
</script>
<%
end if
end if

Dim Recordset1__MMColParam
Recordset1__MMColParam = "1"
If (Request.QueryString("id") <> "") Then
Recordset1__MMColParam = Request.QueryString("id")
End If
%>
<%
Dim Recordset1
Dim Recordset1_numRows

Set Recordset1 = Server.CreateObject("ADODB.Recordset")
Recordset1.ActiveConnection = MM_rscorsi_STRING
Recordset1.Source = "SELECT * FROM gallery WHERE id = " + Replace(Recordset1__MMColParam, "'", "''") + ""
Recordset1.CursorType = 0
Recordset1.CursorLocation = 2
Recordset1.LockType = 1
Recordset1.Open()

Recordset1_numRows = 0
%>
<html>
<head>
<title>Untitled Document</title>
<meta http-equiv="Content-Type" content="text/html; charset=iso-8859-1">
<link href="backoffice.css" rel="stylesheet" type="text/css">
</head>

<body bgcolor="#FFFFFF" text="#000000">
<form ACTION="<%=MM_editAction%>" METHOD="POST" name="form1">
<table width="250" border="0" cellspacing="0" cellpadding="0">
<tr>
<td class="testoscuro" align="center">Inserisci la nuova didascalia:


<input type="text" name="didascalia" class="testoscuro" value="<%=(Recordset1.Fields.Item("didascalia").Va lue)%>" size="47">
</td>
</tr>
<tr>
<td align="center">

<input name="aggiorna" type="submit" value="aggiorna" class="testoscuro"></td>
</tr>
</table>
<input type="hidden" name="MM_update" value="form1">
<input type="hidden" name="MM_recordId" value="<%= Recordset1.Fields.Item("id").Value %>">
</form>
</body>
</html>


<%
Recordset1.Close()
Set Recordset1 = Nothing
%>