questo è il sorgente del secondo sito in questione:
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<object classid="clsid:d27cdb6e-ae6d-11cf-96b8-444553540000" codebase="http://download.macromedia.com/pub/shockwave/cabs/flash/swflash.cab#version=6,0,0,0" width="100% " height="600" id="index" align="left">
<param name="allowScriptAccess" value="sameDomain" />
<param name="movie" value="index.swf" />
<param name="quality" value="high" />
<param name="scale" value="noscale" />
<param name="salign" value="l" />
<param name="bgcolor" value="#ecebe3" />
<embed src="index.swf" quality="high" scale="noscale" salign="l" bgcolor="#ecebe3" width="100% " height="600" name="index" align="left" allowScriptAccess="sameDomain" type="application/x-shockwave-flash" pluginspage="http://www.macromedia.com/go/getflashplayer" />
</object>
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ti basta modificare i campi in blu.

oppure puoi creare un redirect ad un swf eliminando totalmente l' html:
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<head><META HTTP-EQUIV=REFRESH CONTENT="1; URL=http://www.tuosito.com/filmato.swf"> <meta http-equiv="Content-Type" content="text/html; charset=iso-8859-1">
<title>tuonomesito</title>
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