per quest'ultimo problema ho risolto:
http://support.microsoft.com/default...b;en-us;819267


Resta il problema dell'errore che mi si presenta ora anche invocando da web i metodi:

codice:
System.Net.Sockets.SocketException: A request to send or receive data was disallowed because the socket is not connected and (when sending on a datagram socket using a sendto call) no address was supplied
   at System.Net.Sockets.Socket.Shutdown(SocketShutdown how)
   at MySql.Data.Common.SocketStream.Read(Byte[] buffer, Int32 offset, Int32 count)
   at System.IO.BufferedStream.ReadByte()
   at MySql.Data.MySqlClient.PacketReader.ReadHeader()
   at MySql.Data.MySqlClient.PacketReader.OpenPacket()
   at MySql.Data.MySqlClient.NativeDriver.Open()
   at MySql.Data.MySqlClient.MySqlPool.CreateNewPooledConnection()
   at MySql.Data.MySqlClient.MySqlPool.GetPooledConnection()
   at MySql.Data.MySqlClient.MySqlPool.GetConnection()
   at MySql.Data.MySqlClient.MySqlPoolManager.GetConnection(MySqlConnectionString settings)
   at MySql.Data.MySqlClient.MySqlConnection.Open()
   at System.Data.Common.DbDataAdapter.QuietOpen(IDbConnection connection, ConnectionState& originalState)
   at System.Data.Common.DbDataAdapter.FillFromCommand(Object data, Int32 startRecord, Int32 maxRecords, String srcTable, IDbCommand command, CommandBehavior behavior)
   at System.Data.Common.DbDataAdapter.Fill(DataSet dataSet, Int32 startRecord, Int32 maxRecords, String srcTable, IDbCommand command, CommandBehavior behavior)
   at System.Data.Common.DbDataAdapter.Fill(DataSet dataSet, String srcTable)
   at client.DB.login(String password, String account, String pwd)