risolto grazie lo stesso,
condivido la mia soluzione x chiunque possa servire
codice:
<html>
<head>
<script language="JavaScript">
 Begin
<!--
// Add the selected items in the parent by calling method of parent
function addSelectedItemsToParent() {
self.opener.addToParentList(window.document.forms[0].destList);
window.close();
}
// Fill the selcted item list with the items already present in parent.
function fillInitialDestList() {
var destList = window.document.forms[0].destList; 
//var srcList = self.opener.window.document.forms[0].parentList;
for (var count = destList.options.length - 1; count >= 0; count--) {
destList.options[count] = null;
}
for(var i = 0; i < srcList.options.length; i++) { 
if (srcList.options[i] != null)
destList.options[i] = new Option(srcList.options[i].text);
   }
}
// Add the selected items from the source to destination list
function addSrcToDestList() {
destList = window.document.forms[0].destList;
srcList = window.document.forms[0].srcList; 
var len = destList.length;
for(var i = 0; i < srcList.length; i++) {
if ((srcList.options[i] != null) && (srcList.options[i].selected)) {
//Check if this value already exist in the destList or not
//if not then add it otherwise do not add it.
var found = false;
for(var count = 0; count < len; count++) {
if (destList.options[count] != null) {
if (srcList.options[i].text == destList.options[count].text) {
found = true;
break;
      }
   }
}
if (found != true) {
destList.options[len] = new Option(srcList.options[i].text); 
len++;
         }
      }
   }
}
// Deletes from the destination list.
function deleteFromDestList() {
var destList  = window.document.forms[0].destList;
var len = destList.options.length;
for(var i = (len-1); i >= 0; i--) {
if ((destList.options[i] != null) && (destList.options[i].selected == true)) {
destList.options[i] = null;
      }
   }
}
// End -->
</SCRIPT>
<SCRIPT LANGUAGE="JavaScript">





<!-- Begin
function move(fbox,tbox) {
var i = 0;
if(fbox.value != "") {
var no = new Option();
no.value = fbox.value;
no.text = fbox.value;
tbox.options[tbox.options.length] = no;
fbox.value = "";
   }
}
function remove(box) {
for(var i=0; i<box.options.length; i++) {
if(box.options[i].selected && box.options[i] != "") {
box.options[i].value = "";
box.options[i].text = "";
   }
}
BumpUp(box);
} 
function BumpUp(abox) {
for(var i = 0; i < abox.options.length; i++) {
if(abox.options[i].value == "")  {
for(var j = i; j < abox.options.length - 1; j++)  {
abox.options[j].value = abox.options[j + 1].value;
abox.options[j].text = abox.options[j + 1].text;
}
var ln = i;
break;
   }
}
if(ln < abox.options.length)  {
abox.options.length -= 1;
BumpUp(abox);
   }
}
function Moveup(dbox) {
for(var i = 0; i < dbox.options.length; i++) {
if (dbox.options[i].selected && dbox.options[i] != "" && dbox.options[i] != dbox.options[0]) {
var tmpval = dbox.options[i].value;
var tmpval2 = dbox.options[i].text;
dbox.options[i].value = dbox.options[i - 1].value;
dbox.options[i].text = dbox.options[i - 1].text
dbox.options[i-1].value = tmpval;
dbox.options[i-1].text = tmpval2;
      }
   }
}
function Movedown(ebox) {
for(var i = 0; i < ebox.options.length; i++) {
if (ebox.options[i].selected && ebox.options[i] != "" && ebox.options[i+1] != ebox.options[ebox.options.length]) {
var tmpval = ebox.options[i].value;
var tmpval2 = ebox.options[i].text;
ebox.options[i].value = ebox.options[i+1].value;
ebox.options[i].text = ebox.options[i+1].text
ebox.options[i+1].value = tmpval;
ebox.options[i+1].text = tmpval2;
      }
   }
}
//  End -->
</script>
</head>
<body onLoad="javascript:fillInitialDestList();">
<center>
<form method="POST">
  <table bgcolor="#FFFFCC">
    <tr> 
      <td bgcolor="#FFFFCC" width="17"></td>
      <td bgcolor="#FFFFCC" width="17"></td>
      <td bgcolor="#FFFFCC" width="36">Disponibili</td>
      <td bgcolor="#FFFFCC"></td>
      <td bgcolor="#FFFFCC" width="69">Selezionati</td>
    </tr>
    <tr> 
      <td width="28" bgcolor="#FFFFCC"><input type="text" name="list1" value=""> 
      </td>
      <td width="17" bgcolor="#FFFFCC"><input type="button" value="Add" onclick="move(this.form.list1,this.form.srcList)" name="B1">

<input type="button" value="Delete" onclick="remove(this.form.srcList)" name="B2">


<input type="button" value="Up" onclick="Moveup(this.form.srcList)" name="B3">

<input type="button" value="Down" onclick="Movedown(this.form.srcList)" name="B4"></td>
      <td width="36" bgcolor="#FFFFCC"><select size="6" name="srcList" multiple>
          <option value="1">Item 1 
          <option value="2">Item 2 
          <option value="3">Item 3 
          <option value="4">Item 4 
          <option value="5">Item 5 
          <option value="6">Item 6 </select></td>
      <td bgcolor="#FFFFCC" width="74" align="center"> <input type="button" value=" >> " onClick="javascript:addSrcToDestList()"> 
        
 
 <input type="button" value=" << " onclick="javascript:deleteFromDestList();"> 
      </td>
      <td bgcolor="#FFFFCC" width="69"> <select name="destList">
        </select> </td>
    </tr>
    <tr> 
      <td align="center"> </td>
      <td align="center"></td>
      <td align="center"></td>
      <td align="center"></td>
      <td align="center"></td>
    </tr>
  </table>
</form>
</body>
</html>