Ti do il codice. Forse riesci a capire perchè non me lo centra verticalmente:

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<!DOCTYPE html PUBLIC "-//W3C//DTD XHTML 1.0 Transitional//EN" "http://www.w3.org/TR/xhtml1/DTD/xhtml1-transitional.dtd">
<html xmlns="http://www.w3.org/1999/xhtml" xml:lang="it" lang="it">
<head>
<meta http-equiv="Content-Type" content="text/html; charset=iso-8859-1" />
<title>prova</title>
</head>
<body bgcolor="#ffffff">


<table width="100%">
<tr>
<td align="center">
<object classid="clsid:d27cdb6e-ae6d-11cf-96b8-444553540000" codebase="http://fpdownload.macromedia.com/pub/shockwave/cabs/flash/swflash.cab#version=7,0,0,0" width="780" height="520" id="my_restaurant" align="middle">
<param name="allowScriptAccess" value="sameDomain" />
<param name="movie" value="my_restaurant.swf" />
<param name="quality" value="high" />
<param name="bgcolor" value="#ffffff" />
<embed src="my_restaurant.swf" quality="high" bgcolor="#ffffff" width="780" height="520" name="my_restaurant" align="middle" allowScriptAccess="sameDomain" type="application/x-shockwave-flash" pluginspage="http://www.macromedia.com/go/getflashplayer" />
</object>
</td>
</tr>
</table>
</body>
</html>
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Ti ringrazio
ciao