una cosa volevo sapere,

ho provato a connettermi al server sql da un altro pc via lan, e ho messo al posto di
"jdbc:mysql://localhost/"
la stringa
"jdbc:mysql://192.168.3.2:3360/"
dove 192.168.3.2 è l'indirizzo lan del server sql

ma mi da i seguenti errori:
Errore durante la connessione.
Communications link failure due to underlying exception:

** BEGIN NESTED EXCEPTION **

java.net.SocketException
MESSAGE: java.net.ConnectException: Connection refused: connect

STACKTRACE:

java.net.SocketException: java.net.ConnectException: Connection refused: connect
at com.mysql.jdbc.StandardSocketFactory.connect(Stand ardSocketFactory.java:156)
at com.mysql.jdbc.MysqlIO.<init>(MysqlIO.java:284)
at com.mysql.jdbc.Connection.createNewIO(Connection.j ava:2565)
at com.mysql.jdbc.Connection.<init>(Connection.java:1 485)
at com.mysql.jdbc.NonRegisteringDriver.connect(NonReg isteringDriver.java:266)
at java.sql.DriverManager.getConnection(DriverManager .java:525)
at java.sql.DriverManager.getConnection(DriverManager .java:193)
at mouse.Database.connetti(db.java:61)
at mouse.db.jButton1_actionPerformed(db.java:190)
at mouse.db_jButton1_actionAdapter.actionPerformed(db .java:232)
at javax.swing.AbstractButton.fireActionPerformed(Abs tractButton.java:1849)
at javax.swing.AbstractButton$Handler.actionPerformed (AbstractButton.java:2169)
at javax.swing.DefaultButtonModel.fireActionPerformed (DefaultButtonModel.java:420)
at javax.swing.DefaultButtonModel.setPressed(DefaultB uttonModel.java:258)
at javax.swing.plaf.basic.BasicButtonListener.mouseRe leased(BasicButtonListener.java:234)
at java.awt.Component.processMouseEvent(Component.jav a:5488)
at javax.swing.JComponent.processMouseEvent(JComponen t.java:3093)
at java.awt.Component.processEvent(Component.java:525 3)
at java.awt.Container.processEvent(Container.java:196 6)
at java.awt.Component.dispatchEventImpl(Component.jav a:3955)
at java.awt.Container.dispatchEventImpl(Container.jav a:2024)
at java.awt.Component.dispatchEvent(Component.java:38 03)
at java.awt.LightweightDispatcher.retargetMouseEvent( Container.java:4212)
at java.awt.LightweightDispatcher.processMouseEvent(C ontainer.java:3892)
at java.awt.LightweightDispatcher.dispatchEvent(Conta iner.java:3822)
at java.awt.Container.dispatchEventImpl(Container.jav a:2010)
at java.awt.Component.dispatchEvent(Component.java:38 03)
at java.awt.EventQueue.dispatchEvent(EventQueue.java: 463)
at java.awt.EventDispatchThread.pumpOneEventForHierar chy(EventDispatchThread.java:242)
at java.awt.EventDispatchThread.pumpEventsForHierarch y(EventDispatchThread.java:163)
at java.awt.EventDispatchThread.pumpEvents(EventDispa tchThread.java:157)
at java.awt.EventDispatchThread.pumpEvents(EventDispa tchThread.java:149)
at java.awt.EventDispatchThread.run(EventDispatchThre ad.java:110)


** END NESTED EXCEPTION **



Last packet sent to the server was 16 ms ago.
dove sbaglio?