Dalla Microsoft.com:
The Fm20.dll is NOT redistributable.
allora la tolgo e rimedio con qualcosa di redistribuibile!!!

Sempre dalla Microsoft.com
NOTE: The use of these Microsoft Forms components in your own compiled applications, such as those written with Microsoft Visual C++ and Microsoft Visual Basic, is not recommended or supported. These controls were designed and tested to work exclusively within Microsoft Office and its Visual Basic for Applications environment.
PRATICAMENTE TOLGO FM20

Grazie per tutto l'aiuto!!!!

PS naturalmente funzionava installando Office