Puoi aprire direttamente media player e i vari parametri possono essere modificati come vuoi tu, dimensioni, controlli etc. etc.
codice:
<OBJECT ID=MediaPlayer CLASSID=CLSID:6BF52A52-394A-11D3-B153-
00C04F79FAA6 standby="Loading Microsoft Windows Media Player
components..." TYPE="application/x-oleobject" width="250"
height="200">
<PARAM NAME="url" VALUE="prova.wmv">"
<PARAM NAME="AutoStart" VALUE="true">"
<PARAM NAME="ShowControls" VALUE="1">"
<PARAM NAME="uiMode" VALUE="mini">"
<embed type="application/x-mplayer2"
pluginspage="http://www.microsoft.com/Windows/MediaPlayer/"
name="MediaPlayer1" width="300" height="260" src="prova.wmv"
filename="prova.wmv" autostart="True" showcontrols="True"
showstatusbar="False" showdisplay="False" autorewind="True">
</embed>
</OBJECT>