lo mostreri ma non c'è nulla 
ho messo un datagrid sul form
lo associo al dataset
questo è nel load del form
Me.QUtente21TableAdapter.Fill(Me.DbDataSet.qUtente 21
e questo è il codice del file designer associato al form
codice:
<Global.Microsoft.VisualBasic.CompilerServices.DesignerGenerated()> _
Partial Class frmEditUser
Inherits System.Windows.Forms.Form
'Form esegue l'override del metodo Dispose per pulire l'elenco dei componenti.
<System.Diagnostics.DebuggerNonUserCode()> _
Protected Overrides Sub Dispose(ByVal disposing As Boolean)
Try
If disposing AndAlso components IsNot Nothing Then
components.Dispose()
End If
Finally
MyBase.Dispose(disposing)
End Try
End Sub
'Richiesto da Progettazione Windows Form
Private components As System.ComponentModel.IContainer
'NOTA: la procedura che segue è richiesta da Progettazione Windows Form
'Può essere modificata in Progettazione Windows Form.
'Non modificarla nell'editor del codice.
<System.Diagnostics.DebuggerStepThrough()> _
Private Sub InitializeComponent()
Me.components = New System.ComponentModel.Container
Me.DataGridView1 = New System.Windows.Forms.DataGridView
Me.UtenteIDDataGridViewTextBoxColumn = New System.Windows.Forms.DataGridViewTextBoxColumn
Me.CognomeDataGridViewTextBoxColumn = New System.Windows.Forms.DataGridViewTextBoxColumn
Me.NomeDataGridViewTextBoxColumn = New System.Windows.Forms.DataGridViewTextBoxColumn
Me.GruppoDataGridViewTextBoxColumn = New System.Windows.Forms.DataGridViewComboBoxColumn
Me.DbDataSet = New Attività_di_Gruppo.dbDataSet
Me.AttDataGridViewTextBoxColumn = New System.Windows.Forms.DataGridViewComboBoxColumn
Me.QUtente21BindingSource = New System.Windows.Forms.BindingSource(Me.components)
Me.QUtente21TableAdapter = New Attività_di_Gruppo.dbDataSetTableAdapters.qUtente21TableAdapter
CType(Me.DataGridView1, System.ComponentModel.ISupportInitialize).BeginInit()
CType(Me.DbDataSet, System.ComponentModel.ISupportInitialize).BeginInit()
CType(Me.QUtente21BindingSource, System.ComponentModel.ISupportInitialize).BeginInit()
Me.SuspendLayout()
'
'DataGridView1
'
Me.DataGridView1.AllowUserToOrderColumns = True
Me.DataGridView1.AutoGenerateColumns = False
Me.DataGridView1.ColumnHeadersHeightSizeMode = System.Windows.Forms.DataGridViewColumnHeadersHeightSizeMode.AutoSize
Me.DataGridView1.Columns.AddRange(New System.Windows.Forms.DataGridViewColumn() {Me.UtenteIDDataGridViewTextBoxColumn, Me.CognomeDataGridViewTextBoxColumn, Me.NomeDataGridViewTextBoxColumn, Me.GruppoDataGridViewTextBoxColumn, Me.AttDataGridViewTextBoxColumn})
Me.DataGridView1.DataSource = Me.QUtente21BindingSource
Me.DataGridView1.Location = New System.Drawing.Point(13, 13)
Me.DataGridView1.Name = "DataGridView1"
Me.DataGridView1.Size = New System.Drawing.Size(900, 150)
Me.DataGridView1.TabIndex = 0
'
'UtenteIDDataGridViewTextBoxColumn
'
Me.UtenteIDDataGridViewTextBoxColumn.DataPropertyName = "utente_ID"
Me.UtenteIDDataGridViewTextBoxColumn.HeaderText = "utente_ID"
Me.UtenteIDDataGridViewTextBoxColumn.Name = "UtenteIDDataGridViewTextBoxColumn"
'
'CognomeDataGridViewTextBoxColumn
'
Me.CognomeDataGridViewTextBoxColumn.DataPropertyName = "cognome"
Me.CognomeDataGridViewTextBoxColumn.HeaderText = "cognome"
Me.CognomeDataGridViewTextBoxColumn.Name = "CognomeDataGridViewTextBoxColumn"
'
'NomeDataGridViewTextBoxColumn
'
Me.NomeDataGridViewTextBoxColumn.DataPropertyName = "nome"
Me.NomeDataGridViewTextBoxColumn.HeaderText = "nome"
Me.NomeDataGridViewTextBoxColumn.Name = "NomeDataGridViewTextBoxColumn"
'
'GruppoDataGridViewTextBoxColumn
'
Me.GruppoDataGridViewTextBoxColumn.DataPropertyName = "gruppo_ID"
Me.GruppoDataGridViewTextBoxColumn.DataSource = Me.DbDataSet
Me.GruppoDataGridViewTextBoxColumn.DisplayMember = "qUtente21.gruppo"
Me.GruppoDataGridViewTextBoxColumn.HeaderText = "gruppo"
Me.GruppoDataGridViewTextBoxColumn.Name = "GruppoDataGridViewTextBoxColumn"
Me.GruppoDataGridViewTextBoxColumn.Resizable = System.Windows.Forms.DataGridViewTriState.[True]
Me.GruppoDataGridViewTextBoxColumn.SortMode = System.Windows.Forms.DataGridViewColumnSortMode.Automatic
Me.GruppoDataGridViewTextBoxColumn.ValueMember = "qUtente21.gruppo_ID"
'
'DbDataSet
'
Me.DbDataSet.DataSetName = "dbDataSet"
Me.DbDataSet.SchemaSerializationMode = System.Data.SchemaSerializationMode.IncludeSchema
'
'AttDataGridViewTextBoxColumn
'
Me.AttDataGridViewTextBoxColumn.DataPropertyName = "att"
Me.AttDataGridViewTextBoxColumn.HeaderText = "att"
Me.AttDataGridViewTextBoxColumn.Items.AddRange(New Object() {"Si", "No"})
Me.AttDataGridViewTextBoxColumn.Name = "AttDataGridViewTextBoxColumn"
Me.AttDataGridViewTextBoxColumn.Resizable = System.Windows.Forms.DataGridViewTriState.[True]
Me.AttDataGridViewTextBoxColumn.SortMode = System.Windows.Forms.DataGridViewColumnSortMode.Automatic
'
'QUtente21BindingSource
'
Me.QUtente21BindingSource.DataMember = "qUtente21"
Me.QUtente21BindingSource.DataSource = Me.DbDataSet
'
'QUtente21TableAdapter
'
Me.QUtente21TableAdapter.ClearBeforeFill = True
'
'frmEditUser
'
Me.AutoScaleDimensions = New System.Drawing.SizeF(6.0!, 13.0!)
Me.AutoScaleMode = System.Windows.Forms.AutoScaleMode.Font
Me.ClientSize = New System.Drawing.Size(934, 732)
Me.Controls.Add(Me.DataGridView1)
Me.Name = "frmEditUser"
Me.Text = "frmEditUser"
CType(Me.DataGridView1, System.ComponentModel.ISupportInitialize).EndInit()
CType(Me.DbDataSet, System.ComponentModel.ISupportInitialize).EndInit()
CType(Me.QUtente21BindingSource, System.ComponentModel.ISupportInitialize).EndInit()
Me.ResumeLayout(False)
End Sub
Friend WithEvents DataGridView1 As System.Windows.Forms.DataGridView
Friend WithEvents DbDataSet As Attività_di_Gruppo.dbDataSet
Friend WithEvents QUtente21BindingSource As System.Windows.Forms.BindingSource
Friend WithEvents QUtente21TableAdapter As Attività_di_Gruppo.dbDataSetTableAdapters.qUtente21TableAdapter
Friend WithEvents UtenteIDDataGridViewTextBoxColumn As System.Windows.Forms.DataGridViewTextBoxColumn
Friend WithEvents CognomeDataGridViewTextBoxColumn As System.Windows.Forms.DataGridViewTextBoxColumn
Friend WithEvents NomeDataGridViewTextBoxColumn As System.Windows.Forms.DataGridViewTextBoxColumn
Friend WithEvents GruppoDataGridViewTextBoxColumn As System.Windows.Forms.DataGridViewComboBoxColumn
Friend WithEvents AttDataGridViewTextBoxColumn As System.Windows.Forms.DataGridViewComboBoxColumn
End Class